Showing posts with label dads. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dads. Show all posts

Sunday, 22 August 2010

Why Dads are Important

Some people seem to think that a Dad only becomes important when his son needs taking to football practice or his daughter needs chauffeuring to ballet lessons. However, there are hundreds of published research papers that prove beyond any doubt that Dad is indispensable.

Dads matter because….

  1. Children raised with their dads have better social skills when at nursery age and will do better at examinations when they are sixteen.
  2. Being a good dad helps keep your child mentally stable. A close father-child relationship is a good predictor of good long-term mental health.
  3. Children brought up in a happy two parent family environment have higher self esteem and form better relationships themselves.
  4. Being a good Dad means that when your child grows up they are more likely to be a good parent themselves.
  5. Good fathering means your son will be less likely to get a criminal record.
  6. Successful professional women all tend to have at least one thing in common, fathers who respect and encourage them
You are Important to your partner too.

If you help with your baby from the start breastfeeding is more successful and she is less likely to suffer with postnatal depression.


Thursday, 19 August 2010

Dads, get more involved with your baby.


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For new Dads during the first few weeks after your baby comes home and, your partner seems to be breastfeeding 24/7, it’s difficult to see how you can develop your own special relationship. However, over time you will develop a bond that is just as important as that between mother and baby. Meanwhile, take a look at my top tips for being the best possible dad from day one.


Make time

Once you are back at work you need to make spending time with your baby part of your evening and weekend routine. In the evening, perhaps you could pick up the bath time routine or give the final feed. Even if you just sit with your baby on your knee it will help build your relationship. At the weekend you could take them for a walk and generally just take some of the pressure off your partner.

Initially, your partner may feel that she’s failing as a mum if she doesn’t do everything herself but, its vital for your development as a father, not to mention your baby’s development that you get involved. Your partner will be grateful of it too over the months to come. So, even if she protests make sure you get involved.


Don’t be put off

Whether to realise it or not many new mums undermine their partners chances of success by jumping in as soon as dads first attempt at looking after the baby does not go smoothly. If she criticises your performance remind her that you are still learning and that you are capable, as long as you are given time to learn.


Be a breastfeeding partner.

During the first few weeks your partner may be spending a lot of time breastfeeding. Make sure you look after her while she is. Offer plenty of drinks and snacks and make sure she’s comfortable. When breastfeeding becomes an established routine you could get involved by giving your baby a bottle of expressed milk yourself.


Don’t be afraid of a cuddle.

Above all. whenever you get the chance, wherever you are make sure you have a cuddle. It will make you both feel great.